Anybody Else?

Anybody Else?

I love the sun setting later.  I love longer and brighter evenings.  I love the lengthening of days and the feeling that spring is inching forward with Summer in the not too distant future. 

While at the same time…I hated the way I felt this morning.  

Anybody else?

I mean, I travel a bit, my wake up time and bed time adjust regularly, but this morning, was terrible.  

Again, anybody else?

Ebb and Flow

Ebb and Flow

I bet that almost all of us have, at some point, stood on the beach at the shoreline and watched the water push in and out. As the tide rolls back and forth, sometimes it goes higher on to the dry sand and other times it barely seems to push in at all.  Other times, it pulls out deep into the water exposing new mysteries on the gulf floor.  No one can deny this ebb and flow.  As well, rarely does anyone think when it pushes in, it will never end or when it pulls out the water is receding forever.  We have seen the ebb and flow and we enjoy the ancient back and forth.  

Life is a lot like this same ebb and flow.  In different seasons it feels busy and chaotic and in other seasons it feels quiet and still.  Rarely does anyone think this season will stay forever and honestly we all tend to look forward to the change in pace.  

We are about to approach a change of pace here at The Chapel.  Between Spring Break, the season of Lent, and other great things happening around here, there are lots of details you need to know.  Please read below about the upcoming ebb and flow at The Chapel.

We Can Do Hard Things

We Can Do Hard Things

A few years ago we went to Italy and my kids, who already loved pasta, became even more infatuated with it.  Most of us eat the store bought kind…but once you have real, homemade fresh pasta…it’s really hard to go back.  So a few months back, they wanted to make some homemade pasta.  We didn’t have a proper roller, but we made it work anyway.  Then for Christmas we got a pasta maker and my kids have been working on creating unbelievable homemade pasta.  

Making homemade pasta isn’t incredibly hard, it just takes a bit of time and effort.  

I once was congratulating a friend for getting their PHD and they said all it is, is having Patience, Humility, and Discipline.  

I’m sure it’s more than that…and I don’t think that’s what PHD stands for, but I haven’t looked into it.

Fashion Advice

Fashion Advice

Over the past year, my kids have essentially two sets of clothes.  The uniforms they wear for school.  And the clothes they wear every other day.  Their standard clothes on the weekend are Chubbies shorts and a Volcom shirt for Foster and a Chiefs jersey for Keating.  

I love chubbies shorts, I love Volcom shirts, I love the Chiefs…but if I had to choose the only thing for my kids to wear…it wouldn’t be that…or at least not everyday.  

We all have gone through some sort of journey where our parents or grandparents or someone else guided us and taught us…then at some point, we took on those responsibilities for ourselves.  We started to make our own decisions and choices.  

When I used to dress my kids and didn’t let them decide, they wore the coolest clothes…alas, they now decide.  I have given them their own ability to choose clothes.  

All of us go through a journey to launch, and it is leading up to our independence, we are being coached or led until we get there.  As followers of Jesus, we believe that our coaching or leading that is done in the faith never actually ends.  We should always turn to our God and King to help us make wise decisions.  

The struggle is many of us think we know best…and we don’t want to consult from anyone else, especially an ancient book or divine creator.

Half The Conversation

Half The Conversation

Several years ago, Sarah and I shared one account for our phones.  That way we could share music and pictures and everything else stored on our phones…to be honest, we didn’t realize almost two decades ago that all of our life would be on our phones…that didn’t even occur to us.  
The problem with sharing one account is, occasionally, for no reason we completely understood, some of our texts, calendars, emails and other things would show up on the other persons phone without going through a series of menu options to change that or stop it from happening.  

We maybe didn’t send the initial text or send the initial email or initial calendar invite and yet, we had this bit of information that was intended for someone else and we were seriously confused. 

Have you ever tried to understand a conversation with only reading one side of it?  
Whether it is sitting there listening to someone talk on their phone, but have no idea what the person on the other end is saying.  
It is very confusing.